I'm of the opposite mind regarding Dexit, I think it was a good thing, but because they allow forward transfers for Pokémon that are in future titles, it just makes people angry that they can't use all of their favorite Pokémon in every game. Home is probably a huge moneymaker, so I can see why they're proceeding the way they are, but it still bothers me. At least blanking out moves from transferred Pokémon in Gen 9 disincentives people from trying to push old Gen 3/4 event moves into each new generation. At this point, the only gameplay benefit to transferring Pokémon forward is that you shouldn't need to train/re-optimize the Pokémon you send forward (ability, nature, EVs, IVs). Of course, there's also the matter of obtaining Pokémon that otherwise can't be accessed in the game, which is a bad practice and is especially egregious with legendaries/Hisuian Pokémon (regional forms are their own kind of a blotch when it comes to cross-gen compatibility).
As an explanation for me liking Dexit conceptually, I guess I never had any major attachment to the specific Pokémon I used in-game. Don't get me wrong, I have good memories of my original playthrough teams, but I never felt like I had to bring them up to each new game. I only ever kind of cared about shinies that way (and my Birth Island Deoxys). Even then, I lost my drive to transfer things forward sometime around Gen 5 when I realized the hassle it would become. So I don't fully understand the obsession the fandom has with wanting to bring all of their old favorite Pokémon into each new game.
As an explanation for me liking Dexit conceptually, I guess I never had any major attachment to the specific Pokémon I used in-game. Don't get me wrong, I have good memories of my original playthrough teams, but I never felt like I had to bring them up to each new game. I only ever kind of cared about shinies that way (and my Birth Island Deoxys). Even then, I lost my drive to transfer things forward sometime around Gen 5 when I realized the hassle it would become. So I don't fully understand the obsession the fandom has with wanting to bring all of their old favorite Pokémon into each new game.