When is it good to lose your virginity?

When for a boy to lose his virgin?

  • 12

    Votes: 15 12.5%

  • 13

    Votes: 2 1.7%

  • 14

    Votes: 3 2.5%

  • 15

    Votes: 13 10.8%

  • 16

    Votes: 24 20.0%

  • 17

    Votes: 13 10.8%

  • 18

    Votes: 20 16.7%

  • 19

    Votes: 3 2.5%

  • 20

    Votes: 1 0.8%

  • 21+

    Votes: 26 21.7%
  • Total voters
    120

PapaCAP

just wondering. My friend hes 17, he wants to lose his virginity. do you think he's too young? what age do you think its good for a boy to lose his virgin?
 
I'm glad I'm not the only one that said 21+.

I'm going to give my wife the ultimate gift on our wedding night - its free, and it can't be bought/sold/returned. My virginity.


But seriously, losing your virginity is a serious matter. You have sex, and the woman gets pregnant - either condoms weren't used, they failed, or something. Now you are stuck with a child you can't afford.


By the way, I'm 18, and still a virgin. No regrets here.
 
Well I will look at it this way. If I had a son I would not want him having sex before the age of eighteen.

Though if someone like Megan Fox offered to have sex with my child at the age of 15 then he should go for it. Never pass up an opportunity like that.
 
Proud virgin here, 17.

I'll lose my virginity when im ready, meaning im in a serious relationship with someone i care about and she feels the same way. Hook-ups fail.

I wan't a virgin, there's something hot about that. :D
 
Where's the 4 year old option?

Edit: Lost at 15 since apparently everyone is now saying when they lost there's.
 
I'm going to give my wife the ultimate gift on our wedding night - its free, and it can't be bought/sold/returned. My virginity.
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just lol

i voted 16 i guess.. i lost mine at 15 and i didnt know anything but by 16 i was a demon
 
I don't think there is a "right age." If you're willing and able to accept all of the possible consequences of sex, then it should be fine for you to lose your virginity.

Of course, I'm sure there are kids who are delusional about just how "able" they are to take full responsibility for such actions... (Not too much of a stretch, right?)
 
Eh, I'm still 16 and a virgin, no regrets.
I voted 19, just cause 18 is still too soon imo. One year is enough time to get that responsibility, but in reality, the best time comes differently for everyone, even if it was 4 years old for caelum =/ or 40 for matty =/
you guys are odd O___O
 
I personally want to wait until I graduate from college and get married before I lose my virginity.

Doing the exact opposite can turn my life around in the blink of an eye in the worst ways, and I don't want that.
 
I would definitely say there is a "right age"; some people simply aren't mature enough to deal with the social implications that come with having sex at a young age (and the risk of pregnancy, obviously, but with proper education this shouldn't be a problem). The "right age" is different for everyone, though, since people mature at different rates. I guess my point here is that you (or your friend =P ) shouldn't rush into having sex for no other reason than wanting to have sex. You need to be aware of the social risks involved - and knowledge concerning pregnancy/STD's is a given. Your friend certainly isn't too young, but it seems like he only wants to have sex to try and improve others' and his own opinions of himself. I have friends who are still virgins at 19/20 years old and it isn't like they get made fun of or anything, so on the off chance that your friend wants to talk about it, I would tell him that he doesn't really need to rush it.

That said, I lost my virginity at 17 and my life has yet to implode, so I guess it wasn't a bad thing!
 
I also said 18. Most high school relationships aren't terribly meaningful, and I think sex should really count, not just some random thing you do with some girl you like.

your first time is especially important so you shouldn't waste it on just anybody, just to say "i had sex, yay"

I'm in college and I've already had a few oppurtunities, but I'm still waiting for that one special girl to come along...
 
lost at 18 IIRC, it doesn't really matter that much to be honest.

Sex is like oxygen: it's not a big deal, unless you aren't getting any.
 
losing your virginity isnt a big deal. people hold it upon a pedestal like its so special, just like the first time you use the bathroom on the toilet.
 
I disagree Atlas, I reckon atleast for your first time you should do it with someone meaningful t'you. Pretty much, what Skiddle said. Fishin and Tay covered my thoughts well. The "right age" IMO (and many above posts) refers to maturity and as such it's individual, so there's no "right" answer.

I was 15.

edit: also LOL gorm
 
Ambitions said:
I lost the v-card at 13 to a total whore I was dating at the time. No regrets, it makes a funny story.
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This truly was a funny story. 13 year old tuskate almost went into cardiac arrest when 13 year old Ambitions told me.

Kagster123 said:
I wan't a virgin, there's something hot about that. :D
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See now I totally don't get that concept. That's horrifying to me *grossness forthcoming look away* It would be pretty much the worst sex of your life because she wouldn't know what to do and *gross part* you'd have some gnarsty blood on your kit.

17 myself, but at the same time, if you are ready I would say go for it. Just wrap it up, that's all I ask.
 
For the age, seventeen! Chef from South Park says, "You know you're ready, when you're seventeen." As for regretting a sexual experience (that doesn't end in pregnancy or getting an STD), that's stupid. It's a learning experience. The first time you do it won't be near as good as after you've done it many times, so instead of regretting, think of it as a practice that builds on itself.


"Sex is like oxygen: it's not a big deal, unless you aren't getting any." -hahaha so good.

On the other hand, however, people who want to wait until marriage to have sex might be on to something. I was talking to my boss who is a strict Muslim. He and his wife were compelled to wait until marriage. It must be something about not having had a previous partner, because they still do it all the time. Not saying that the sexually exploratory among us won't continue to have great and frequent sex with a married lover years down the road, but it seems much more sacred if you keep the same partner your whole life. Not that I would know! Anyone here married to their only partner?
 
I said 16 and I lost mine then as well. To the same girl who I am dating now and living with. So its been a good 3+ years, I'd say that was a good choice on our part.
 
I chose 17, because that's Chef's answer in regards to this question in an episode of South Park. It was also the age I lost mine, to a girl I'm still with now, almost two years later.
 
I'd say whenever you've moved away from home. It would kinda suck having it on and being shitscared that your mum would walk in. I'm only 14 so I can't say i have much experience on the matter.
 
Whenever you feel like it, it's completely unimportant.

I lost mine when I was 14 [thanks to conservative sex ed I had no idea about STIs and very little about pregnancy. ridiculous. the idea that because sex is an 'unladylike' and 'dirty' subject our sex ed in high school was limited to knowledge of the luteal phase and being given a condom in year 10. brilliant. completely unhelpful.]

..nothing bad happened to me as a result, the sex I have with my partner now isn't any less 'special' because I've not lost my virginity to him/fucked x number of men/women beforehand [and vice versa].

Peanut-Lover said:
But seriously, losing your virginity is a serious matter. You have sex, and the woman gets pregnant - either condoms weren't used, they failed, or something. Now you are stuck with a child you can't afford.
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Well, you're kinda not actually, without getting into the whole abortion debate AGAIN I'll point out that child does not necessarily follow pregnancy. Not to mention the cap, coil, Pill, injection, implant.. contraception is there for a reason, kids.


If you want to have sex, you're ready to have sex, that's pretty much the end of it.
 
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